Two tabs I currently have open on my computer: beeswax pillar candles and cozy winter socks. The title of my next book is Homeschool Hygge and it’ll be out soon. Jokes aside, there are so many things I’m enjoying about our pace right now, the rhythm of our day, the energy and the habits we’re forming–intentionally or unintentionally. Slow mornings with cuddles in bed, frequent trips to our library, and moving in a sort of beautiful dance with one another. One at the desk, one snuggled up with the pillows, reading, penciling, cuddling, just being together.No, it’s not all dreamy, all the time. I just consoled a boy this morning because his brother made him very sad. (Interruption: it’s several hours later now, as I write this, and I’ve just consoled said child again. Don’t let me or my sneaky Instagram ever tell you my children get along all the time.) House is messy, things left undone everywhere I look. But I do wonder if we’ll look back on this time through a foggy lens of we were together. Most days, all day, and we loved it. I’m already feeling like that now and I’m currently in it. How often I need to move beyond things to appreciate them the way I wish I had when I was in them. But here, I’m loving it, now, in the present. These pictures are from a recent trip to Woodstock, Vermont where we had the delightful opportunity to cat-sit. It’s a thing, and Hunts are available. We can promise a lot of cat cuddles, if your cat so desires. Kitty litter, we got that too. If they’re more the want-to-be-left-alone type, we can respect that. The cat we were sitting, my friend Rachael’s, was very much of the “let’s cuddle” mentality. So cuddle we did.And, we got plenty of fresh air, and witnessed fall just beginning to show itself in the state of Vermont.Steve read Ethan Allen and the Green Mountain boys to Parker that week. A perfect setting to read such a book. If you’re a New Englander (or, simply, an American), Ethan Allen’s is a great Revolutionary War story to read. This is one of our Landmark books (most often found at used book stores, or on Ebay, or other small children’s book sellers!). We brought school with us! When Steve was teaching his classes online, we’d knock off some lessons.And then we would venture into Woodstock when we wanted to be less off-the-grid-ish (and when Mom wanted a break from cooking). Woodstock Inn–well, the total of Woodstock and, as I think of it, the whole of Vermont–is so incredibly lovely.One of Mom and Dad! And a teeny photo bomber.We went inside the inn and got fondue and dessert. Here’s Anders polishing off the rest of the chocolate chip cookie dessert.Also, the farms behind the Woodstock Inn–they’re a must visit. The luffa gourd tunnel alone is out of a strange science fiction movie. Parker was calling me over, “You GOTTA see this, Mom!” And you know how kids want you to look at everything and sometimes it’s just… not that remarkable? I was across the farm when he was calling me and was doubting how much I really HAD TO go and see the tunnel. He was right, I was wrong. The below is a screenshot from my stories — I don’t have any good pictures of it!Mornings were cool but by afternoon we were shedding layers.A visit to the Simon Pearce headquarters… unfortunately with COVID, you weren’t able to go down to see the glass blowing. The boys and I have been, but Steve hadn’t. I guess we’ll have to go back! Their craft is truly amazing.We also went to VINS which the boys were super pumped about. Especially my animal-loving Parker. And got to see this bald eagle UP CLOSE. Whenever we are at the lake, we are on lookout for bald eagles all week long and we’re lucky if we catch the slightest glimpse of a fly over. Seeing one like this was pretty remarkable. Different than seeing one in the wild, of course, but incredible nevertheless. All the birds at VINS have been injured and wouldn’t survive in the wild. They have this amazing space and new treehouse walk with loads of educational opportunities. It would be impossible to capture the tree canopy walk but it’s worth a visit. And then go to Worthy Kitchen for some Heady Topper and a chicken sandwich. Ending on a high note with this saucy sandwich…
Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog says
Looks like you had a wonderful trip! ❤️✨
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Emily says
This looks so fu and it is so lovely to see photos of a new to me place. You are making me crave going to New England in the fall. One year!!! It looks magical and I love that you are soaking up this slower pace.
bridget says
Where do you live?! You’ll have to visit New England one day this time of year — mid October is really the sweet spot.
Ashley Izsak says
These pics are so good Bridget! I am loving your hair and red high tops! Also totally resonated with the whole needing to be beyond a stage to savour it and wanting to be better about that.
D says
Does this time spent schooling at home make you want to do it longer or do you indeed look forward to a day when they can go back to school? I’m in such a different spot, a half time working outside the home mom of a 14month old and a 3 year old and I’m. Just. So. Tired. I mourn the idea of my children going to school but the days are longgg. I have this idea in my head that perhaps living in a slower pace (not working at all, not trying to finish university, not comparing myself to others, country, off grid) would lend me more patience and sadness for this season to end, but truly not sure if that would be the case or it’s just a grass could be greener thought.
bridget says
So, we’re only in late October. Right now I’m of the “I want to do this as long as they want to do this” mind… leaning towards the knowledge that I’ll be bummed if they don’t want to do it any longer. That being said, I’m not working half time outside the home. That. is. hard. When you’ve got one foot in the rat race, and the other doing the SAHM thing, you’re juggling so many things, that I totally get the desire to outsource some things so you can enjoy your time with the kids more! As for the grass being greener… I get that too. This year more than others–a desire to check out of the societal pressures and demands and expectations and move to some remote location and just BE… my family and I and the great outdoors–that can ail me too. While you’re in this place–this will sound very cliche, but it helps me–think of the ways in which you are so blessed. It often shifts my perspective. Thinking of you and hoping you find a contented medium really soon.
Ashley+Pullen says
Ahh! Vermont is at the top of my bucket list. So beautiful.
Li says
Where is your sweater from? It’s so cute!
bridget says
which one? the gray is from h&m and the cream is free people!