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christmas for the lady.
for the lady who likes to be warm (which is all of us) // these boots, this chunky scarf, this cool throw, these amazing slippers (pay attention to that one, steve)
for the lady who likes to make food (or, perhaps, salt the food that you made for her)// these beautiful salt and pepper grinders (i seriously love these, the black and white!)
for the lady who has a long commute to work and so she wants something pretty on her keychain to redeem the many hours spent in the car// this black leather tassel (on sale now! TPSHOLIDAY20)
for the lady who likes pretty things (really is all of us)// this ring that can be personalized (and stacked!)
for the lady who likes form and function// these sweet sneakers
for the lady who likes soup and chili and basically anything else that you need a stove to make so a lot of things// this dutch oven (to date it is probably my favorite kitchen-related present ever)
for the lady who is also a bit of a coffee enthusiast// this pretty set
and for your cyber monday “steals” (they do cost something, so i’ll keep quotes around steals):
// GAP is a 40% off sale. get this wear-all-the-time sweater.
// J.Crew is having a 40% off sale. get this holiday OR everyday dress.
// Nordstrom is having a random here-and-there sale. this sweater is 45% off and fabulous. my favorite jeans on sale too!
// Sorel (the best snow boots!) is having a 25% off sale. these are my favorite boots.
London!
winter coats or parkas or jackets depending on what you call them.
jumpsuit.
weekend links.
I saw these at J.Crew the other day on the mannequin and they are perfection.
Google fortunetelling. Really good.
Kind of obsessed with this vest.
“And for the first couple of weeks, they poo Marmite.” Babies are full of design flaws.
4 facts about the vetting process for Syrian refugees..
It’s not a coat, it’s not a cardigan, it’s a coatigan!
Bible school primer for governors during refugee crisis.
I may try to attempt this bread this weekend.
I love these dinner party tips. Effortless dinner party hosts fascinate me.
Have a great weekend!!
browsing target and other random thoughts.
arriving home after a three-month target fast (calling it a fast is a bit of a misrepresentation when target wasn’t even a possibility abroad. nice try, bridge. if target were in italy, you’d have been there because you have no self control.) to target at christmastime is sort of like entering the promised land. snow globes and bottle tree brushes! fir-scented candles! ornaments big and small!
i only needed a few things: shampoo and conditioner, cotton balls, the whole nate berkus home line.
i never did decide on shampoo and conditioner, though i was in that aisle for a good seven minutes and smelled several of them. i literally stood there and thought, “i just don’t know. i’m going to ask my readers.” so here we are. can i explain to you what i want, and then those of you who know these things tell me what to get? okay. i want VOLUME, my hair is dry-ish, wavy, and has two postpartum bald spots on either temple that need to be fixed right away. oh, and no post-shower care, please. i want to just have it be that way with zero effort. in sum, my needs are simple, please advise.
what do you guys think of the new adult coloring book fad? i sort of love it. coloring is such a quiet activity. it requires almost nothing of you and yet you can’t do anything else while you’re doing it. it’s genius! start with this one.
i sort of liked these boots (sold out in my size at the store, however).
i also bought balderdash, on a total whim which is fairly unlike me. i remember playing it down the shore with all my cousins and nearly peeing my pants with laughter. put away the iPads, let the family game nights commence! you hear that, william and lindsey?
i really exercise my brain when i’m going through the aisles of target, don’t i?
p.s. do any of those gel polishes actually work?
till next time!
Important unimportant work.
I have a cold. I was certain it was allergies at first. “My pillow?! Is it down? Is it dust?” Now I’m pretty sure it’s… just a cold. Anders woke up sometime in the 4 o’clock am hour almost every day since we’ve been home but now we are inching closer to 7 and I’m so delighted. Do you know how long the darkness still has to go when you’re waking up at 4:30 am in mid-November? I don’t either, but it’s awhile.
I almost ate an apple in the shower this morning (multitasking at its finest), but then Anders woke from a 20-minute nap–which was just long enough for me to fold one basket of laundry, refill my coffee cup, and feel anxious about the things on my to-do list–so the apple was replaced with a 20-lb. bouncing baby boy. I remember Parker in this stage. The naps were totally wonky, he was totally underfoot and/or on a death mission at all times, and the cuteness factor was maxed out. That last part is crucial.
Steve and I are always moving right now. I said to him this morning, “Think we were actually less busy when we were abroad?” What is that? Why do we do this to ourselves? What am I even busy with? I’ll tell you what: laundry, dinner planning, dinner cooking, blog stuff, email, permission slips, cleaning, tending to children, grocery shopping, making a case for the importance of going potty before bed, figuring out whether I’m sufficiently clean and if not finding a proper hat to hide the mess, messying the kitchen, cleaning the kitchen (times eight times per day)…
Important unimportant work.
I recently read on Instagram someone say that she delights in her sink full of dishes at the end of the day because it means she was busy with her children all day long and while I completely loved that sentiment I also thought, “That kitchen’s gonna need to be faced at some point.” Messes nag at me. I can’t be fully present with a messy kitchen. And kitchen messes? They’re one of those messes that grows.
Little things are making a difference. Meal planning. I started doing it shortly before we left and picked it up again this week. It helps me make a grocery list (and then Steve does most of the grocery shopping), reminds me to take chicken out the morning of so it thaws, means less food is wasted, so on and so forth. Everyone, myself included, is happier when there is a solid meal at a reasonable hour for dinner. Last week’s favorite was steak, mashed sweet potatoes, and green beans.
I’m still figuring out what my “planner” will be. As much as keeping it all on a phone is nice, I love PAPER. I need to feel that list in my hands and physically cross things off of it. One of you suggested the Get to Work Book and, while I love it, I have to wait until 2016 to get it. So, I guess the rest of November and into December I’m going to continue my messy, rambling ways and then come January unleash the new and improved organized Bridget. That’s what that means, right? RIGHT.
Important unimportant work, for sure. The most important, I know, is right in front of me with limbs and voices asking me to sign a slip, to write a check, where are the stamps, what’s for dinner, can we go outside and play.
But, I also know that I enjoy my time with them more when the rest of my life is more under control. So, let’s get there. You and me both.
And this is a P.S. meant for Steve: thanks for being in this with me. We’re a team, and I really like being on your team.
italy! in video!
an italy video! of course!
our time there feels like so long ago in some strange ways. i know the details will get blurry over time, and will all but be forgotten, especially for young ones like parker and anders, so i’m glad to have gotten some video while we were there. we play our videos for parker all the time (sometimes he just clicks around our vimeo account on his own and watches old things) and i think it’s nice since he’s sometimes too young to remember certain big events. our trip being one of them, of course.
p.s. i didn’t get video footage in florence or rome, but i was pretty good about it elsewhere!
(i’ve had questions about how i put together these videos before. this one was all taken with my 5dmarkii and edited with iMovie on my mac!)